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I don't know if this started before or after I met @plebpoet irl, but at some point, I started thinking it would be cool to face my social anxiety by interviewing random people about bitcoin, lol.
However, I know how annoying it can be when you just want to go your own way, but you already spot a guy from a distance approaching random people for charity donations or whatever (it’s always about money in the end anyway), and you start wondering how to evade the situation this time. Walk slower until they’re all busy with others? Just say you don’t have time? Walk faster and ignore them? Avoid eye contact?
And if trying to avoid them didn’t work (or if you were in a good mood) and you did end up in a conversation with them, I’m pretty sure they know exactly that they first need to ‘warm you up’ before asking for money—making us feel guilty for ‘wasting their time’ if they we don't, when in reality they wasted ours already.
Anyway, this isn’t meant to turn into a rant about annoying charity workers, so I’ll leave the explanation of why I never got around to interviewing random people at that.
But now to my new idea:
In #883040, I mentioned that I would be much more sympathetic if beggars asked for food or water instead of money because I don’t trust that they are actually poor and homeless. Then I realized it would be interesting to see how they react if you give them food or water instead of money.1
At the same time, I’ve always wanted to hear these people’s stories. Why are they living on the street (assuming they really are)? How did they end up in this situation? Do they have plans to get out of there? If I give them something to eat and drink, I would feel much more comfortable asking them about it.
The reverse also happened once: I was waiting for my KING Fusion Oreo, and someone who looked homeless was waiting as well. We started talking, and he shared a lot of wild stories, including one about the Falklands Wars where he refused orders to occupy foreign land and, to his surprise, was not punished. After eating his cheeseburgers, he also wanted to buy a KING Fusion, so I offered to get it for him. At first, he thought I just meant that I would order it for him using his own money so he could stay put. When he realized I actually meant I would pay for it (~5€), he was very surprised and thanked me profusely. A human connection was formed ~
We talked some more and even smoked a cigarette outside. When we were done, he thought I would follow him back inside. However, that was my cue to leave, as it had already been almost an hour iirc. He was genuinely sad that I had to go and thanked me again for my time and the ice cream. He also mentioned that not many people would do what I did for him. I replied that there are more people like me out there. As I left, I knew I had gained a new perspective on life and was reminded that random encounters with people can be quite wholesome, so I should be less anxious around them starting now.
So back to my idea: I am planning to prepare some questions and then go out and find someone who seems to live on the streets, give them something to eat and drink and then ask if they have time (they live on the street, they surely have time, right??) for an interview. I could even combine this with telling them about SN and that I would share it on here. Any sats that I would receive would go to them as fiat within the next few days. It might not be much but it's going to be honest work!
What do you think about this idea?
Do you have questions for homeless people?

Footnotes

  1. It is very unfortunate that this sounds like some kind of experiment with mice, lol.
77 sats \ 0 replies \ @siggy47 2h
This made me think of the Grateful Dead song Wharf Rat:
I got no dime but I got some time to hear his story.
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I would definitely watch that.
Have you ever watched Mark Laita's Soft White Underbelly interviews? He has a ton of interviews with homeless people, drug addicts, etc.
The most viewed is an interview with an inbred family that lives in the North Carolina Appalachian Region.
Fascinating to hear peoples' stories.
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26 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek OP 2h
I did not! I just scrolled through the channel and this episode immediately caught my attention. Thank you so much for sharing!
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This is the video that initially popped into my mind, it's from 2008 titled: Homeless Man Used to Be a Banker Before the Recession
Sucks it's only 10 minutes long due to 2008 YouTube, because his story is wild and pretty heartbreaking at some points:
  • ran away from home at 12 with hippies
  • returned home after 1 year, kicked out for good
  • spent ~2 months in every US state over the next 15 years
  • settled in LA, got job in the investing arena (diamonds, indie films, oil/gas)
  • evicted from his home
  • loses storage unit with all of his belongings, including 10,000 pages and a book to his daughter
  • even more
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It's a great idea, and I will zap you 1,000 sats for every interview you do!
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30 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 2h
thank you!
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100 sats \ 1 reply \ @plebpoet 5h
Not ek with social anxiety! never! I joke. But really, I applaud your idea! I hope it will strengthen the connection you have to the place you currently live. I did something sort of similar yesterday, but without any intention behind it. I was on a bus and a man across from me was talking loudly about nothing. He started to talk at me and my friend and we couldn't ignore it after a time. So I met him at his level of outlandishness and entertained myself as we both said insane things. It made a couple people laugh, and that was worth it for me. I called myself a baby and he asked me if I was autistic, just straight up.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 3h
I hope it will strengthen the connection you have to the place you currently live.
Ohh, good point, but it will be a little too late since I'm leaving soon and won't be coming back. 👀
I did something sort of similar yesterday, [...]
Haha, I could picture that situation with you in my head. Despite the social anxiety I mentioned in this post, I think I would have done the same since I like talking to weird people. I mean they are weird. Isn't that the same as being interesting?
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100 sats \ 0 replies \ @LibertasBR 6h
I’m glad to hear that this has been helping with your anxiety. People who live on the streets have many stories to tell and truly interesting perspectives.
I remember that when I was a teenager and studied in the city center, there were several homeless people in front of the course I attended. I used to talk to them, and one of them once told me that he knew Greek, Latin, and German. He ended up living on the streets after his wife cheated on him, took everything he had in the divorce, and, consumed by depression, lost his way.
He also told me about a newly arrived homeless woman we had seen in the area for the first time. Her story was similar: she was deceived by the man she believed to be the love of her life, who stole everything she had. Devastated, she lost control, went mad, and ended up living on the streets.
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100 sats \ 2 replies \ @Aardvark 6h
If I was going to ask a homeless person anything it would just be "so what's your story?"
I assume nobody listens to them anyhow, and they probably have a lot that they want to talk about, so I'd keep it broad and let them talk about whatever they wanted.
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41 sats \ 1 reply \ @ek OP 2h
Good point, I should let them talk as much as they want and mostly just listen
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I bet there's some pretty crazy stories out there, and everyone has one.
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100 sats \ 1 reply \ @NovaRift 7h
Please go for it; I'm very curious, as I never thought of doing this. Can you please ask these questions on my behalf?
What’s one message you’d want to share with policymakers or economists about homelessness?
How do you see the world, and do you think you see it differently than others?
What does home mean to you?
Do you believe in God? If so, why? If God was there, why would you be homeless then?
What bad decision got you here?
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 2h
Can you please ask these questions on my behalf?
Thank you for the suggestions! I will try but no guarantees, it needs to fit the flow of the conversation 🫡
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This is so ballsy. I bet you would learn a ton, about them, about the world, about yourself.
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0 sats \ 0 replies \ @ek OP 7h
Thank you, hopefully I will actually do it and not just LARP about it 👀
edit: What exactly is ballsy about this though? 👀
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i used to live in a city with scattered hubs of homeless communities, as well as whole blocks of homeless camps. the idea to interview the homeless and teach them about bitcoin crossed my mind as well. however, many of them are too far gone, mentally.
my other thought was to hold a privacy & security seminar at an abused women's shelter, a perfect audience for bitcoin education. i am constantly increasing my knowledge of the tools available, and teaching it to the people who need them most would certainly make me learn faster.
one learns faster and better when dealing directly with real-world scenarios.
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